Thursday, July 11, 2019
That’s one of the most popular questions in my life right now. “What are you going to do?”, “What’s your plan?”, “Are you scared?”
Ya know, someone actually asked me this week: “Are you scared?” I know my head cocked sideways, and I said, “scared of what?” I think it was supposed to be a joke, and I get that, but why in the hell would I be scared?
I’ve been scared before. I’ve had major fears, but at this point in my life, I’m not afraid of anything. I see nothing but the beautiful potential of authenticity, a life without regrets, and the ability to smile just for the sheer sake of smiling. So, no, I’m not scared.
I’ve always heard the saying, “if you have people talking, you must be doing something right.” Honey, people are talking. I’ve worked in the same office for 11 years, and there are some colleagues that I can count on one hand the personal conversations we’ve shared. Since my commitment to change, everyone wants to get in on the Tyler action.
Unfortunately, it’s too late. I would love to have opened up my beautiful life to everyone, but they didn’t take the time. When you snooze, you lose. I’m not intentionally withholding my life from people, but if you had gotten to know me, you would have already known about this life journey. I can’t tell you about my plans for my happy life in just 2-3 weeks. You had to have been there with me. You can only share in the wonderful experiences to come. For someone to expect a simple answer from me, at this point, to the question, “what are you going to do?” It’s just not possible. It’s far too complex. You should have been paying attention over the years.
I’ve never kept my life a secret. I am very open with all struggles I’ve been through. I’ve always hoped that my story, the lessons I’ve learned, and the experiences I’ve been through, could shape someone else’s life and offer a positive influence. You have to pay attention, though. There are situations that you could be avoided if you had watched me “learn the hard way!” I’m the king of the hard way, but I get it from my daddy. He’s a great man, in case anyone was curious!
The truth is, I’m open with my life, because I want to share it! We are all just spiritual beings having a human experience, so why not do it together?! I can’t toss my brain out at people so they can see what’s truly going on up in there, so you must pay attention and be open to the dialogue for communication and comprehension. I have yet to meet a stranger, and the only time I don’t talk to someone is because they have declined the invitation.
Don’t decline my invitation.
I’m looking forward to the next steps in this process! So thankful for those who have been here with me, and followed all my quirky videos, inspirational moments, sad times, down and almost outs, and everything in between!
The next steps of life will have a lot less restrictions. That’s some unexpected advice, ‘don’t put unnecessary restrictions on your life.’ Live life the you that you were meant to be. Live your best self, your best life.
And here’s a happy photo, because everyone likes happy photos:
